A Good #Dom Pushes His Slave? #BDSM @naughtynell101

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This excerpt was taken from ‘The Agreement by S.E. Lund.

I think I agree with her thinking. The whole idea of domination is pushing limits to a certain degree as the boundaries of control are discovered. Even hard limits may change over a period of time as the sub begins to feel more confident and puts more trust in her dominant partner.

As there should always be a safe word between the pair, there will always be the opportunity for the sub to stop the scene if she feels it is becoming too much for her, so pushing boundaries should never be an issue for concern, unless it is making the submissive upset, in which case you both need to have a sit down, a cup of tea, and a very long chat.

What are your thoughts? Should the Dom be pushing boundaries or should he be content to stay well within limits? Of course, nothing is ever set in stone for people and this will be negotiated between each couple – but for me – I like the idea of limits being explored, pushed and tested. It’s a sensual journey of discovery and sometimes, to discover something new and mind-blowing, a little risk is required.

On that note: Safe, Sane, and Consensual peeps!

 

 

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