#Chastity & Controlling Male Slaves #BDSM @naughtynell101

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CHASTITY

Article by Ingrid Bellemare

 

It is well know within BDSM circles that if you control the slave’s cock then you control the slave. Women who own male slaves have discovered that a denied and sexually frustrated male is compliant and submissive but a sexually fulfilled male is a lazy disrespectful man. So Mistresses have embraced the practice of male orgasm denial to limit the amount of orgasms their male has. This keeps him in a heightened submissive state. Orgasm denial can vary from the Mistress who allows her slave say one orgasm per week to those who think that one per month is sufficient for her male to keep his plumbing cleaned and his desire to serve at a maximum level. The male orgasm is a biological function that causes sexual release and relaxes both body and mind and is more like the eruption of a volcano than the waves of a rippling ocean that is the female orgasm. Thus men lose their desire to pleasure a woman after they have climaxed.

Keeping a male aroused but denied is the greatest and most effective technique a woman can employ for her own sexual fulfilment. Denying the slave orgasms is a real power rush and so easy to achieve. For the slave it is a constant reminder that his sexual desire, like everything else, is the property of his Mistress. It is her pleasure not the slave’s that is important.

The benefits of male orgasm denial become much more apparent outside the bedroom if the slave is locked up and denied permanently. He will remain in a constant state of submission and subservience knowing that pleasing his Mistress in everything is his only chance for the release of his sexual frustration.

Let me say categorically that the Mistress requiring total attentiveness and subservience from her slave must impose a regime approaching total permanent denial. The slave must be allowed no access to his cock, permitted no masturbation or orgasm and, if possible, not even be allowed to obtain erection. He must learn that as a subservient he has no rights to any sexual pleasures and exists to provide sexual pleasures for his Mistress.

 

She can then further encourage her slave by offering say one orgasm per month but only if no more than a certain number of penalty points have been accrued by the slave in his general day to day servitude. There are no half measures where this is concerned so the woman who is serious about owning a real male slave should not shy away from total orgasm denial.

 

There are basically two categories of chastity device for male slaves, the chastity tube and the chastity belt. Of the former type amongst the most popular is the CB3000. This has superseded the CB2000 which was a somewhat crude device. A tube encases the penis and is held in place by a ring behind the ball sack. It is important to get the sizing right for comfort and security and a number of rings and spacers are provided for this purpose. The ring should be the smallest that can be fitted over the slave’s cock and balls and the thinnest spacer should be used to ensure the balls cannot slip out between the two halves of the device.

I now keep my slave permanently locked into one of these devices as it is the most unobtrusive of the type and can even be worn under swimming trunks. However it is made from plastic (good for airline security scanners), is not particularly robust and not, in my opinion, very attractive to look at.

Other devices of this type are available manufactured from steel and I am at present investigation those from steelworxx, a German company. The product appears on the face of it rather more aesthetically pleasing.

The CB3000 is not totally secure and it has been known for slaves to get their cocks out of the device, though if the spacers are right it is unlikely that they will extract their balls. Inserts are available to trap the penis in its tube. One type simply makes the entrance to the tube smaller but another has spikes which would be quite painful if the slave attempted to remove his cock from the tube.

But for complete security it is possible to use a genital piercing and an additional small lock (see Chapter 10; Piercing). My slave has a Prince Albert (PA) piercing in the end of his cock and another lock through this ring ensures total security

Chastity belts are more complicated devices. Made from steel they consist of a waistband, crotch shield and chains which pass between the legs. These

must be made to measure as they are totally unyielding but are very secure. Additionally a thin strap between the legs can be used to secure a butt plug in place.

There are models available from Tollyboy (UK), Access Denied (USA), and Neosteel and Carrerra (Germany).

From an aesthetic point of view I think the belts look better on a slave than the tubes and the CB3000 is particularly unattractive compared with the steel ones. I guess it is chunkier being made from plastic. Additionally with the belt the slave can be kept plugged. However for long term wear under clothes the tubes win every time. They are smaller, can be worn under swim trunks and do not inhibit free movement which is often a problem with the belts when worn for extended periods under clothes. Some chastity tubes can now be obtained with a smaller tube in the end which is inserted into the penis and through which the slave urinates thus keeping the whole device much cleaner and extending times between necessary cleaning.

Cleaning is always a problem and should be carried out at least once a day for slaves in permanent chastity. This can usually be achieved with a power shower alleviating the need for the device to be removed. However belts with small drainage holes should be thoroughly cleaned every day or so to remove the build up of secretions which every male slave seems quite unable to control.

A word about butt plugs. These can considerably increase the slave’s feeling of total control by his Mistress and the use of the slave’s anus by his Mistress adds greatly to his humiliation. A Mistress requiring the use of her slave’s anus for say a strap-on or electro anal torture should open him up gradually by increasingly extended use of a butt plug. Do not use water based lubricants with butt plugs as they are quickly absorbed by the skin. The lining of the anus is very delicate and quite easily damaged so anything inserted must be well rounded and very smooth. Petroleum jelly is the best lubricant and will not be absorbed.

Start with a small plug and increase the size and length of time gradually until the slave can take whatever you require for as long as you wish.

Recently Neosteel have introduced an electric plug with a remote control to fit the chastity belt. The transmitter has a range of up to one hundred metres so can be used it to summon the slave and send him coded signals when he is performing personal services.

 

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Owning and Training a Male Slave Ingrid Bellemare

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