What’s The Dress Code For Male Doms? #BDSM

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Dress Code For The Male Dom

I saw this question pop up on my wordpress stats, so I thought I’d try and answer it from a female perspective. At the end of the day, the male dominant is a dominant – so he should wear what he damn well pleases, but if he’s new to the lifestyle and looking for a few pointers – I’ll note downΒ a few ideas of what womenΒ will appreciate here.

If you turn up in a scruffy pair of jeans with holes all over them and a dirty t-shirt, you’re probably not going to be an attractive prospect for a submissive – unless you’re dressed from head to toe in tats – in which case females will probably melt all over you, and less is more. If that’s not the case then keep reading πŸ˜‰

As a minimum I’d probably try for a pair of smart jeans in either black or blue, (save the orange ones for Christmas) and a dress shirt. Similarly, I’d keep it plain and simple. It seems to create more of an effect on the opposite sex. Women are strange creatures at the best of times.

If you’re one of those guys oozing confidence, notch it up a level with a sexy blazer in black or beige. Power dressing works for me.

All girls love guys in suits and ties, so if you’re coming straight from the office – feel free to leave the work gear on, but I’d probably get out of that nasty, uncomfortable tie πŸ˜‰

As to footwear, black or brown leather works well. Boots look especially good. Pick something that fits your style and creates an impression.

Okay – that’s just about it from me. Just make sure you have a nice, thick leather belt around your waist – you never know when that might come in handy…

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Final Note: If you’re going to a fetish party, and you’re looking for buckles, leather, uniforms, PVC and the works, here are some stores you could try:

http://www.fetshop.co.uk/catalogue/mens-fetish-clothing#.VrcS4seRrdk

http://www.honour.co.uk/cat/mens-clothing-bestsellers

Some parties will have strict dress codes and you can be turned away if not properly attired. It’s always best to check with the hosts first.

Got an opinion? Great. Let me have in the comments box below πŸ˜‰

10 thoughts on “What’s The Dress Code For Male Doms? #BDSM

  1. Completely agree! But I want to add that this holds true for submissive men, too. I want a man who looks like he put some thought into how he looks, regardless of his personal style.

    The suit and tie is fantastic, but a tatted guy with a simple black shirt and jeans is great too, as long as the clothes aren’t wrinkled or dirty.

  2. Most of this works well for male submissives, too. Basically pay attention to your hygiene and how you look, feel confident regardless of your scene role, be socially appropriate, and don’t assume anything about your partner until you get to them.

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    • You wouldn’t consider doing me a guest post on submissive girlie wear would you? With links back to your blog and all the rest πŸ˜‰ Please please please? You know I love your posts x

      • Wow! Thanks – I’d be honored. Just let me know which way you would like me to go. Out IRL? Munch/Fet Party. Presentation? A day or evening plan? πŸ˜‰

      • Oooh THANK YOU! Do whichever takes your fancy – or a small series of posts if you like πŸ™‚ If I said Fri 26th Feb would that be okay? If that’s not enough time, we’ll work around it πŸ™‚ YAY! x

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