Defining Submission #BDSM

Portrait of young beautiful blue-eyed woman in black lacy mask

If I had to use one word to describe it, that word would probably be ‘trust.’ There are so many more words to use, though, that a single offering wouldn’t be doing the term justice. It’s devotion, it’s love, it’s arousal, it’s excitement, it’s an ingrained need that can neither be explained or defined.

For some of us, submission goes no further than the bedroom. For others, the need to submit is craved around the clock. There are some that want pain, others that want the quiet headspace that comes with losing control, and yet more who just require an alpha male in their life.

I’m not sure submission can be defined in any real sense. The need to bend under another’s will? Broadly speaking, perhaps. Our needs, wants, and desires are what makes us unique, and every single person out there is different.

I suppose the point to this message is – don’t let anyone define you. Be you. Be happy. If someone falls in love with you along the way, so be it.

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