How To Find A Kinky Partner #BDSM & #Fetish

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By Christina Mandara writing for Marquis Magazine

It’s hard enough to find a vanilla partner these days, so the prospect of finding someone who likes whips, chains and bondage might seem a little daunting at first. There are tried and tested methods of finding someone into BDSM, however, so buckle your seatbelt and get ready for some wild times.

You might have to look a little further afield than normal

It’s unlikely you’re going to find someone who’s up for spankings and lashings of kink on your doorstep, so you are probably going to need to be prepared to travel unless you live in a big city. If you’re desperate, you could try yelling ‘Anyone in this neighbourhood fancy a spanking?’ at the top of your lungs, but unless you’re really lucky, it’s unlikely this method will work. If it does, Mrs Jones, the elderly lady four doors down with bad breath and a BO problem might not be your first choice.

Hire a professional

This is the expensive way around the problem, but with almost guaranteed results. Whatever you’re looking for, be it a dominant, dominatrix or submissive, you’ll find it somewhere on the web. Type the service you need followed by the name of your city and you’ll find out what’s available in your area. Isn’t Google awesome?

If your money situation is dire, or if you’re just far too tight for that kind of thing, keep reading.

How to find a BDSM play partner

Fetlife.com is the home of everything kink, and I mean everything. Whatever you’re into, they’ll have like-minded individuals who would love to meet you. Set up your profile, start making friends and chatting, and who knows? You may find yourself quickly dressed in a latex bodysuit, tied down over a bench and being spanked silly. Just save me an invite to the wedding, okay?

Whiplr.com is another online chat community where you can talk about sex and kinky stuff to your hearts content. It’s the only location-based messenger that can help you find potential play partners online or in person.

BDSM.com, BDSMsingles.com, BDSMdate.com and Alt.com are all kink-friendly dating sites, set up to help you find someone nearby who shares your enthusiasm for all things fetish. Most of these will have a monthly charge involved, but you’ll be able to see member’s pictures and profiles beforehand, so unlike a chat room, you won’t be completely in the dark if/when you go to set up a meeting.

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