The Top 10 BDSM Toys Every Beginner Needs #BDSM & #Fetish

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Original Article written by Christina Mandara writing for Marquis Magazine

If you’ve had a look at one or two online sex shops and have been overwhelmed by the sheer number and variety of sex toys out there, this is for you. Whilst there is an amazing array of choice for any budget, these toys have been specially selected for ease of use and orgasmic vibes. Let the good times begin!

Magic Wand Massager

Betty Dodson affectionately called this beast the ‘Cadillac of Vibrators’ back in the 1970s, and with good reason. The vibrations on this baby will make her eyes water. Whilst it was originally invented as a massager, its ease of bringing women to orgasm is well documented and, um, much appreciated. If you want to blow her mind, and possibly the electricity bill, this is going to be the investment of the year. All you have to do is find the clitoris and hold her down. We suggest using it on its lowest setting at first, especially if you’re not partial to a black eye.

Blindfold

Anticipation is everything! If you want to spice up your foreplay and have her panting in need, a blindfold is a good place to start. The concept is that if you take away one of her senses, the others will compensate. So leave her waiting for ten minutes on the bed with a blindfold, with express instructions not to touch herself, and go take a shower. If she’s really bad at following instructions, combine the blindfold with some restraints. That will really get her blood pumping, and that’s what we’re going to talk about next.

Restraints

You don’t have to go mad and get a pair of police-grade handcuffs. Just find some soft rope, or a pair of silk scarves, and get knotty. For all you boy scouts out there – don’t go overboard. Whatever is tied up must come undone one way or another. The idea is to impress her with your sexual prowess and knot tying ability, not have her dissolving into fits of giggles, but hey – whatever works for you.

Clamps

Okay, so you’ve blindfolded and tied her up. What’s next? Well, you could always try a little of that pain/pleasure thing. Grab a couple of wooden clothespins and place them on the skin of her inner thighs. It’s always handy to have her tied down first, because otherwise limbs start flying about at this point. Gagging might also be a good idea right now, but we’ll talk about that later. Remember that clamps mustn’t be left on the skin for too long, just a minute or two will do, but hearing her beg you oh-so-sweetly to take them off will be music to your ears. When you have removed them, make sure you kiss everything better.

Flogger

As far as impact toys go, these won’t pack too much of a punch. If you’re just starting out, opt for wide thongs made from deerskin or suede, as these will be gentler than the heavier leather ones. You’re aiming for a ‘thudding’ noise rather than a sharp sting, but now we’re on the subject…

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