Let’s Talk FemDom – A Guide To Becoming A Male Submissive #FemDom #BDSM

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Original article by Christina Mandara writing for Marquis Magazine

If you haven’t heard of the term FemDom, it means female domination, and it’s when a woman dominates either a man or a woman. In a nutshell, it’s when a woman takes control. Interestingly enough, there are far fewer female dominants than male submissives, so women who like to take charge in the bedroom are in demand.

How should you address a female dominant?

A female dominant can also be known as a domme, domina, or dominatrix. There are many terms of address, such as mistress, ma’am, your highness, and goddess. If in doubt, call her whatever she tells you to!

How do you attract the attention of a domme?

Pick your venue carefully. A BDSM munch or fetish party might be a good place to start, or you could seek her out online via a dating site such as Fetster.com.

Once you’ve found the domme of your dreams, the hard work begins. If you are meeting her in public, dress up and pay attention to grooming. There are a lot of applicants applying for the position, so you’ll want to put your best foot forward. Just like you would for a job interview, make sure you turn up on time. Early is much better than late. If you’ve known her for a while and this is your first meeting, consider bringing a thoughtful gift. It doesn’t have to be expensive, just something that will open up the lines of communication.

Even though you’ll probably be horribly nervous on your first meeting, try to make small talk. You don’t want to be the first one to talk about sex. She’ll bring that up all by herself as long as the meeting is a success. If sex, kinks, and fetishes are brought to the table, keep it light to start with. This isn’t the place to air out your innermost fantasies – there will be plenty of time for that later. Feel free to share the things you are most interested in, and some of your experiences to date if appropriate. If in doubt, let her lead the conversation – and remember – this isn’t all about you. Make sure you listen as much as you talk unless instructed otherwise.

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