The Obstacles Of Meeting Other Fetishists #Fetish #Kinky

Adult Sensual CoupleOriginal article by Venus O’Hara writing for Marquis Magazine

It is not easy to meet other fetishists. Not even for me. But I probably have it easier than most. I say this because I am a female dominant. I do not feel that I need to conform to the expected trappings of the scene such as fetishwear, elaborately plotted scenarios and BDSM accessories. None of that is of any concern to me. I simply require a man who is into me enough to worship me and let me take complete control. I have known plenty of vanilla men who did not mind it at all when a woman takes the lead in bed. For many, it’s a welcome change from having to initiate sex themselves.

The approach that is usually the most successful for me is to gradually introduce my preferred fetishes into a vanilla sexual relationship. But this doesn’t work for all fetishes. For example, introducing blindfolds, light bondage, provocative lingerie, dressing up, and high heels in the bedroom can be relatively easy. On the other hand, finding someone who is able to participate in a role-play scenario can prove to be more difficult. It takes a distinct talent for interpretation. I have found that a successful role-player needs to be someone who makes me laugh and humor is a big part of how we communicate with each other. The ability to keep a straight face, be witty and quick-thinking are also appreciated.

Foot fetishists and tickle aficionados tend to be more complicated to satisfy. For many vanilla people, feet can be highly off-putting to say the very least. The majority just do not get it at all. In my case, I adore having my toes tended to by an eager foot fetishist. I found one through a mutual friend. Luckily, he is also a fetish photographer. We arrange photoshoots at my place and after we have captured the desired shots, I am only too happy to let him lick my soles and tickle my toes. We both deserve it after an hour or so of podal posing and foot worship, all in the name of art.

Then, when I cannot take the attention anymore, I make him some tea and we have a friendly chat as if nothing has happened. I love this rigorous formality, particularly following the previous fun and games. I often find that I have to masturbate several times after he has left, just so that I can feel ‘normal’ again. This sounds weird to my vanilla friends. They just don’t get the fact that there is no kissing or sex between us. It’s about art and fetishism.

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