What’s the difference between #ABUSE and #BDSM? And a few BDSM Phrases explained.

50 Shades of Grey has confused some vanillies (as I like to call them, or people outside of the BDSM loop). He’s hitting her. It’s abuse! Now here’s the thing: If he was doing it without her consent and if she didn’t have the power to stop him with a safe word at any given […]