#MidWeekTease – Are You Going To Be A Good Boy For Me? #BDSM #FemDom

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Hello Teasers! It’s that time of the week where I share another little snippet from my WIP ‘The Velvet Caress,’ and Mark’s about to have a hard time of things. Don’t all cry at once 😉

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The Velvet Caress

The door opened quietly and in my sights there could have been the body of a twenty year old. All of Sophia’s slim curves were cloaked tightly in red and black latex and she looked fucking fantastic. She sported thigh-high black boots, red latex suspenders, a waist-cinching black corset with red trim, black panties, and red latex gloves that reached past her elbow. I wanted to lick her boots. I suspected I would be, shortly, too.

Getting to my knees, I placed my hands behind my back and bowed my head to my chest. As I was about to return to my original position, I found a crop stuck underneath my chin that prevented me from doing so.

“It’s good to see you remember a few of my instructions,” she said softly.

I resisted the urge to smile or reply. Either would get me whipped. Wait a minute, wasn’t that why I was here?

“Does this mean you’re going to be a good boy for me today?” she purred. The crop stroked a firm line up my neck before it buried itself in my cheek. I think it was fair to say that it ticked me off a little.

“I fucking doubt it,” I replied.

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Wax Play – It’s HOT! #BDSM #Edgeplay

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Original Article by Christina Mandara writing for Marquis Magazine

It’s HOT!

So what exactly is wax play? Well, it’s where you tie your partner down (she doesn’t have to be tied down – but it’s more fun that way) and drip hot wax all over her body. It’s an exciting form of BDSM edge play, because the submissive never knows where the next drop is heading, and if you add a blindfold into the mix, it becomes even more delicious. Those hot little drops of wax can have a lot of fun dribbling over a naked body.

Before you run out to the local store and buy yourself enough candles to start a small séance, you might want to take a few things into account. For starters, you can’t use any old candles. Beeswax candles burn at a higher temperature than specially designed wax play candles, and a spell in the A&E department is no one’s idea of a fun afternoon. Always test the wax on your wrist or the back of your hand first, and if you don’t run around the house screaming and crying in pain, then it’s probably safe to use. In case your submissive doesn’t agree, always maintain communication throughout your wax play session. This means no gags. Sigh. You need to be able to hear her safe word, just in case things go wrong.

Another point to remember is that dripping wax on body hair will prove difficult when it comes to removing said wax. It’ll be a bit like ripping plaster off, but worse. The good news is that you can shave all problematic body hair off together, and won’t that be fun? It’s also good practice to have a shower beforehand, because any products like hairspray and body spray contain alcohol, and playing with a naked flame near alcohol is… bad.

So you’ve got your candles and you’ve tied her down – now what?

Unless you want to permanently ruin your bed sheets, you’ll want to put a plastic sheet under your partner. Then scour the area for anything that might potentially catch fire, and remove it. Now that the safety side of things is taken care of, you’re ready to begin.

Start by relaxing her with a slow, sensual massage, and blot any excess oil away before you begin. When you’re satisfied that she’s moaning and groaning in heat, then that is your cue to light the candle. Remember to test the wax on the back of your hand first to make sure it’s not too hot. When you’ve done that, hold the candle approximately eighteen inches above her back and start slowly, drop by drop. The height at which the candle is held will affect the intensity of the heat. The higher up you hold the candle, the cooler the wax will feel when it lands. Test different heights upon your own arm to get an idea of the effect.

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The Orgasm Gap – Are Women REALLY More Difficult To Please Than Men? #sex #relationships

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By Nicki Lisa Cole, Ph.D. writing for thoughtco.com.

Gender disparities abound in our society. The gender pay gap, for starters, shows that the labor of men is valued more than that of women. Women hold less than 20 percent of congressional seats in the U.S., which makes for a great disparity in political representation. Women are considerably underrepresented as writers and directors of film and television, and as artists in our nation’s museums. They are also more likely than men to live in poverty.

There’s another gender gap, ideologically connected to these, which at first glance, may strike readers as a sexy gender gap. However, it is deeply un-sexy. I’m talking about the orgasm gap.

The orgasm gap is a rigorously documented disparity in the rates at which men and women achieve orgasm during sexual encounters together. A nationwide survey of sexual practices found that women report only 1 orgasm for every 3 reported by a man.

Some argue that this gap exists because women take a long time to achieve orgasm, or because it is difficult to produce an orgasm in a woman. Others suggest that women don’t orgasm as frequently because we don’t “need” to in the way that men do, or that women are naturally more giving as sexual partners. Some might suggest that women are not interested in sexual climax, but rather with the cuddling that sometimes follows it.

But, lesbians are here to prove all of that wrong.

The survey of sexual practices cited above found that women who have sex with women achieve orgasm far more frequently than do women who have sex with men. This study also found that women easily and regularly achieve orgasm through masturbation—even those who suffer the orgasm gap with men. And, way back in 1953, the Kinsey study found that both men and women take about 4 minutes on average to achieve orgasm through masturbation.

So, we’ve disproved the notions that women take a long time to climax, that it is difficult for women to climax, and that they are not interested in achieving orgasm, nor do they need to (see masturbation and lesbians). But what about the idea that women are naturally more giving sexual partners? Is there something to that?

In fact, there is. But, it’s not natural. It is social.

Women are often viewed as good listeners and care-givers because we are socialized by our families, our teachers, our coaches, our churches, popular culture, and our employers to be such. Of course, this is not a universal for women, but it is a trend. Men, in contrast, are socialized to be powerful, to take action, to win, and to be right. This means that women are overwhelmingly socialized to be empathetic in their relations with others, while men are not. From a socialization and social interaction standpoint, then, it makes sense that when a woman loves a woman, she loves her better than a man.

But, then there’s the other side of the coin: the overwhelmingly selfish and self-interested nature of heterosexual masculinity.

I know. Those are sharp words. But consider the following. In her groundbreaking study of the development of sexuality and gender identity among high school students, sociologist C.J.

Pascoe found that boys peg ideal masculinity to their ability to physically and sexually dominate girls. The way that boys talk about girls in high schools positions girls as objects to be won, and positions themselves as powerful actors who are only “real men” when they get what they want.

Sociologist Lisa Wade explains that in heterosexual encounters this amounts to women inspiring desire, and men experiencing desire. Men want women, women are wanted. Given this one-sided framing of desire, it is no surprise that women’s desire (and pleasure!) often goes unaddressed. Wade also points out that the primacy of men’s desire eclipses many sexual acts, besides intercourse, that give pleasure to women and produce orgasm. She writes, “This is part of why intercourse – a sexual act that is strongly correlated with orgasm for men – is the only act that almost everyone agrees counts as ‘real sex,’ whereas activities that are more likely to produce orgasm in women are considered optional foreplay.”

Read the full article HERE.

Christina’s Favorite Item Of Fetish Wear (So Far This Week…) #BDSM #Fetish Wear

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Isn’t that a cheeky little number? A spanking skirt with a difference 😉

  • PVC trim at the waist and zip at the front
  • Great four way stretch which clings to your body’s natural curves
  • Removable panels at the back show off your cheeky side
  • Front zip for quick & easy access as & when the need arises
  • Made from a fine quality blend of PVC & spandex
  • Note: Noir Handmade items are only available to customers in the UK

Price – £43.99

How about this? It’s a skirt with a moonroof! This decadent wet look skirt features an open back with removable straps, which lay across your backside for a peek a boo bum!

The PCV straps are held in place with sturdy popper studs and can be quickly removed for a flash of cheeky bum, making it a convertible spanking skirt. The classic cut combined with the fantastic four-way stretch material makes the Noir Handmade F081 Black Wet Look Skirt with Open Back and PVC Details a staple in your fetish wear wardrobe. Wear it with your favourite fishnet stockings for a little more coverage, with a thong for some coverage or go without for a bold and domineering look.

Made from a fine quality blend of polyester and spandex, this sensational skirt clings in all the right places and simply oozes sex appeal. The low rise fit and pencil style creates that highly sought after hourglass effect, and the exquisite stitching means it has been made to a superb standard of quality. The PVC trimmed waist and zip entry at the front allows for quick and easy access when the need arises, but also gives this skirt the appearance of all business up front. However, everyone will see the party at the back when you turn around. Show off your deviant dress sense in style, with the Noir Handmade Wet Look Skirt with Open Back and PVC Details!

#SatSpanks – Medical Play #BDSM

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Hello Spankos! It’s the weekend, it’s summer, and the birds are singing in the trees. As to the birds and bees… well, they’re playing naughty. So what’s new? 😉

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“Medical play is always good fun for shock value. There’s nothing quite like a table full of medical implements to scare a submissive witless. Some subbies love a good mind fuck, and if that’s what they’re aiming for, I can usually deliver. It can play out one of two ways. I can either perform an intimate medical exam by playing the roll of a doctor, or I can concentrate on things like needle play and minor procedures.”

“Minor procedures?” I swallowed over the thick lump that had formed in my throat.

“Piercings, tattoos, suturing, needle corsets. Piercing the skin with a needle triggers lots of lovely hormones such as adrenaline and endorphins. Some submissives find this kind of play intensely pleasurable.” My eyes widened at the list he had just rattled off. Perhaps I should have paid a little more attention to that sheet of limits I’d been handed.

“You have no idea what a pleasure it will be working with someone who will allow me so much freedom in my pursuits.”

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Let’s Pretend #Roleplay Guide for #BDSM

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Original article written by Christina Mandara writing for Marquis Magazine

Five Kinky Role Play Scenes To Spice Up Your Bedroom Routine!

We’ve all had fun on the playground with cops and robbers, cowboys and Indians, or doctors and nurses. The good news is that pretending doesn’t have to stop just because you’re an adult. Use it to inject some naughty fun into your sex life and the sky is your limit. Need some ideas? Read on…

Boss and Secretary

The Scenario: You’re pulling an all-nighter when your secretary decides to delete all your files for your upcoming meeting tomorrow. Tell her that’s she fired unless she can find some way of making it up to you.

Why it’s good for her: She gets to wear a short skirt and play Maggie Gyllenhaal for the day. She’ll be quaking in her boots as she begs you to take pity on her. What will she do to get in your good graces again? Pop her backside over the desk and ask for a spanking? How delicious!

Why it’s good for you: You get to play the high-flying executive whose every command must be obeyed. If she wants her job back, you can make her earn it. Make sure you work her hard – you’re paying her, after all!

High Class Call Girl and Client

The Scenario: Book yourself into a classy hotel and arrange to meet your partner in the lobby. Why not text her with the details of the clothing you’d like her to wear? That will make the wait all the more exciting as you keep your eyes glued to the revolving door of the hotel lobby.

Why it’s good for her: She gets to dress up and put some fancy underwear on. She also gets a sexy night away and you dribbling at her feet for a night. Remember, though, there’s no kissing allowed.

Why it’s good for you: You have your partner at your beck and call for the evening. You get to call the shots. You want her to strip, tell her! You want her to talk dirty, you need only ask…

The Human Sex Doll or Robot

The Scenario: She’s been bought and programmed for the evening. She is to follow your every command and please you in any way that she is instructed.

Why it’s good for her: She’ll never know what’s coming next. All she can do is wait to obey, and the anticipation of your next move is going to drive her nuts.

Why it’s good for you: You’re in charge! Position her however you want and get her to act out your wildest fantasies. She’s there to serve your every whim and act out your fantasies, so have fun with this one. If you want her silent for the evening whilst you watch footie, this one could come in handy.

Read the FULL article HERE.

 

Unboxing 50 Shades Darker Bondage Kits with Sammi Cole #50ShadesDarker

This week on Bondage Gone Wilde, they’re unboxing a couple’s bondage kit from the Fifty Shades Darker collection!

Undie Mondays’ Sammi Cole steps in for Jess Wilde to find out just what’s in the Fifty Shades Darker collection from Lovehoney. Ooh err! Anyone fancy a go? 😉

#MidWeekTease – Nothing Less Than A Monster #BDSM #amwriting

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Hello Teasers – hope your week is going well? Just two more days to go until the weekend – but before we get there, here’s a little update on ‘The Velvet Caress.’

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Chapter Six – Mark

How do you go from sadist to masochist in the blink of eye? I wasn’t sure I understood it myself, but I knew this much: tonight had to happen. The weight of the world was on my shoulders, and I needed relief, if only for a night. Did I expect the big guy upstairs would see my suffering and take pity on me? No, but one could hope, right?

In all seriousness, this was probably selfishness on my part, but Jen had suffered so much in such a short time under my hands, that I felt the need to atone, and I couldn’t think of a better way. If Jen had been awake, I’d have asked her to do it, because it was only fair she got a chance to have her own back, but I needed to face facts. There was a chance that Jen might never wake up. There were no guarantees when your body was in the ICU and filled with thirty yards of plastic tubing. So, I would atone for my sins with Sophia this evening, and hope that Jen might stay alive long enough to sate her revenge with me another day.

Fuck. What if she woke up and refused to have anything to do with me? How did I handle that? And now that I knew I was in love with her, what happened if the sentiment wasn’t returned? Be reasonable, Mark. How could she love you? What could you have possibly done that could have made you anything less than a monster in her eyes? Putting my head in my hands, I realised I needed Sophia now more than ever. This was a mess I would never untangle.

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Burning Passion by Lilian Roberts BookBlitz – Steamy #Romance! — Just #99c!

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Lindsey is a stunning young woman full of life, smart, efficient and ambitious, she surrounds herself with quality friends and has gained the respect of coworkers, superiors, and friends.

Her heartbreaking separation from a five-year relationship left a void that someday would need to be filled. But at this point, romance seemed like unsafe territory.

And just about the time she thought she had achieved an impenetrable, relationship-proof fortress, Paul, a virtual friend on Facebook, sweeps he thoughts away and sets her nights on fire. If he is anything like what she had built in her mind, he would be a force to be reckoned. Lindsey is just about to find out…

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BDSM Can Be A Form of Meditation, Dominatrix Explains #BDSM, Sex & Relationships

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Meditation makes most Americans think of a Middle Eastern Indian or Tibetan Monk sitting in a lotus position at a monastery in the middle of nowhere, remaining still for many long, agonizing hours in their silent search for enlightenment. Most of us, however, have neither the patience nor the hip flexibility for such activities, and because we weren’t raised practicing meditation, we have only this skewed image of the practice that has been given to us by the media.

Guess what though? Driving a race car, coloring, watching a movie, or practicing BDSM can all be forms of meditation too. It’s not about the yoga poses — it’s about letting go of the relentless mind chatter and focusing solely on the present moment.

According to the Institute of Noetic Sciences,
“The most popular, widely adapted, and widely researched meditation technique in the West is known as mindfulness meditation, which is a combination of concentration and open awareness. Mindfulness is found in many contemplative traditions, but is most often identified with the Theravadan Buddhist practice of vipassana, or “insight meditation.” The practitioner focuses on an object, such as the breath, bodily sensations, thoughts, feelings, or sounds. The focus is not as narrow as in concentrative meditation, for there is a simultaneous awareness of other phenomena. This mindfulness practice is often extended to daily actions, such as eating, walking, driving, or housework.”
In my free time, I like to go rock scrambling and ride a motorcycle, both of which can be dangerous and potentially fatal if I let my attention wander. When I participate, I have to be completely focused on what I’m doing and fully mindful of my surroundings. I can’t be thinking about work, the electric bill, a boyfriend, or getting my car to the garage for a tune-up. The activity is intense and demanding, and therefore my mind is — must be — clear. When this happens, I lower my blood pressure, strengthen my immune system, and decrease my emotional anxiety just as much as if I were sitting quietly, meditating on a yoga mat.

The meditative form of BDSM is called “subspace.” My submissive clients describe it as an altered state of consciousness in which they feel completely liberated from stress. It’s a practice that allows you to completely let go of internal and external stress so that you can fully immerse yourself in the present moment. As the Dominatrix, I also experience a corresponding mental state of relaxation from my deep focus and concentration.

Read full article HERE.